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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everyone - the couple is still MARRIED! Her husband wants to move away to his mistress and insists on overnights. For that he needs his wife's consent, or a temporary custody agreement/court order. It seems to me the husband insists on doing it "his way" without any legal rights to do so or any expense. Mom can just as easily say no to her child leaving the marital home stating overnights with a stranger, basically. Just like she can say no to field trips, overnight camps etc

Besides, all those 50/50 fans - it doesn't look like AP or dad even want the child 50/50. They only want to "host" once in a while. You can't force 50/50 even via court on any parent. And it will be unhealthy and psychologically  damaging for the child to be in a household where he's not wanted.[/quote]

DP. I hear you. It’s horrible and dad is an asshole. But you cannot control a person. You cannot force someone to stay married to you. It is illegal.

Or doesn’t matter whether the father is married, cheating, gay or a priest. If he is on the birth certificate, he has guardianship and parental rights. Custody and visitation can be changed at any time, with or without a marriage/divorce, until the child is 18.

The misinformation is dangerous. I tried to offer 50/50, my ex wanted nothing but biweekly weekend dad, especially during the tough toddler yeas. He missed out on a ears he will never see because he was angry that I was “taking his parent away”. I was not unfaithful, I tried nesting. Options to transition or rent the house to allow a period to reconcile if counseling attended — nothing.

There are two issues. One is the issue of the father’s rights and the mother’s rights; the other the obligation to do what is in the child’s best interest. It both parents cannot be mature enough to do it, than AT LEAST ONE should. [/quote]

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