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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ask your mom to be more proactive with establishing a relationship with her SIL. Your mom should contact SIL directly to offer babysitting. Your brother sounds like a golddigger. Maybe it’s just that both your mom and brother are followers and expect other to take the lead?[/quote] Um, no. Why should SIL bear the burden of scheduling and maintaining family relationships for her husband's family? That's emotional labor. HE should carry it for his family. Stop putting more and more burden on women just because they have vaginas. ***The brother/son is just not that into his family.*** Which is a perfectly valid life choice for a grown-ass adult to make. He doesn't have to play by OP's rules or meet her expectations. [/quote]
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