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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Black woman with white DH here. I find OP's concerns valid.  I would not, however, think of discussing them with anyone except my spouse, unless my son asked me for advice about this specifically.   You are rightly worried, but as powerless as Cassandra trying to warn the Trojans.  The only right thing to do is keep your fears to yourself. Perhaps the young lady will, influenced by the experience of loving and living with a person lucky enough to grow up in a loving and open family, be able to deal with the trauma in a healthy way. Like Jesse Jackson always said, you have to "Keep hope alive!"[/quote]

No, OP isn't Cassandra.  OP is Fa Hai, the misguided, prejudiced monk who thinks a woman (Bai Su Zhen) is a demon because she's a benevolent snake in human form.  Bai Su Zhen is, clearly, the fiancée who has done such a great job in overcoming hardship and who, given a supportive DH, could be an amazing partner.  The fiancee may have some baggage but that doesn't mean she's a Trojan Horse.   :roll:

https://ed.ted.com/lessons/the-chinese-myth-of-the-white-snake-and-the-meddling-monk-shunan-teng[/quote]

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