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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So she wants to take a break and you live together? Is she moving out?[/quote]

OP here. She went to stay with a friend while she thinks about things. [/quote] Yeah....rigghhhttt!  I'm so sorry you fell for this.  There is no good reason she can't think about things while you are still together.  There are a few likely reasons why she wants this time apart.  Pay attention and trust your gut.  Go visit her, unannounced and you will probably have your eyes opened.  Either way, you already lost her.[/quote]

x2.  She went over to the guy she's been boning to get some more while she "thinks."  Send her on her way![/quote]

x3. Agree!! Send her on her way!! Dismissed! Stupid to fall for the idea of someone wanting to separate themselves to think things through. Yes you can think about it together on the couch, in the same home without moving. This is not rocket science. What immature cheater does something like articulate their needs, recognize that they may not align with yours, and then take a step back to clear her mind? She can go to the gym for that. She doesn't have to move out. She doesn't need a couple of days womewhere else. She is not cut out for marriage anyway.

Her desire to think while away from you reeks of insecurity, instability and uncertainty about her judgment as a functioning adult. No normal person that is emotionally healthy does that. You should smile and tell her nothing about what you want, your eyes will be opened to see that she won't figure it out, and it is her fault for not learning how to read your unspoken signals. More than likely, your soon to be ex, she is pregnant by another guy that she loved more than you anyway, this time apart to "think" is not only to end the relationship she is too scared to be in, but also gives give space for recovery of the abortion she is having with the other dude's baby. You just made it so much worse. She wants the children with you, and you were dragging your feet, so she started having sex with a guy from CraigsList and now she is caught up in a dilemma -- break up and keep his baby or abort and hope that maybe in the future you two will have the family. She is immature, and stupid, and you are a fool. Good riddance!! Spring dresses are coming and you need to be ready to run after them. Let her go with a smile, take all of her crap and throw it out, better yet, have the police do it!!! Spring fling means no ring!! Bros over Ohs!

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