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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She IS immature. If she’s 31 and wants yo have kids by 40 then what’s the rush. I still think she wants to be engaged and married regardless of who it is (she thinks it will elevate her status with her group of friends), you just happen to be there and she likes you.

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The rush is that if she wants kids, if she wants to be married when she has kids, and if she wants to be in a solid relationship before she gets married and has kids, she’s probably aware that fertility, for women, starts to decline around 30. It sounds like you’re projecting quite a lot onto this situation, since you don’t seem to realize that most women don’t easily have their first kids “by 40”.  OP, perhaps, is in less of a rush, but it doesn’t make sense to pretend that needing reassurance that this is a relationship that is headed towards marriage isn’t realistic. 
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Projecting what? [/quote]

NP. Your unresolved issues that are 1) heavily coloring your perspective and ability to remain objective, 2) demonstrating a lack of emotional maturity in terms of rationale around potential motivations 3)promoting a very passive aggressive and emotionally immature response and 4)concluding with an unnecessarily and extreme attitude and dismissal around the resolution of conflict.

Sometimes taking a break means taking a break. You don’t seem to understand that people can say what they mean and mean what they say; you seem to think OP’s GF has motivations and impractical logic. That is a projection of yourself. Nothing OP wrote indicates such a strong and definitive outcome. You give horrible relationship advice, are you married? You sound bitter.[/quote]

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