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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dragging things out in divorce is such a petty behavior. Whether you were wronged or right. It is a controlling holding pattern and abusive. I’d want to be free of it as soon as possible, but different strokes for different folks, I guess.[/quote]

I'd argue the controlling and abusive behavior was the years of cheating, gaslighting and emotional abuse.  [/quote]

I’d agree with you. But you only put yourself on their level if you can’t raise yourself up by your bootstraps and step out of the ring. It sucks and it is unfair but it is 100% the only path to your personal peace. At some point you have to do it. He isn’t worth your feelings, your time typing, your agonizing, your sadness. That is a hard process to embrace. Best to start trying now. It’s not like he is ever going to do the right thing. What he did is disgusting, you want the universe to serve him what he sowed (betrayal, exploitation), move out of the way so you can be served with the bounty of what you speed that he doesn’t deserve (loyalty, integrity, good fortune).

It sucks to be with someone 25yrs but to move to the next chapter you have to close this door. I know it isn’t easy. It’s hard AF. I’ve been through it. Keeping things in a holding pattern hurts OP more than the man without a conscious.[/quote]

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