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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I  also concerned that as soon as we divorce, my ex would remarry, and brings the whore to live in my marital home. My son says he won’t even go see his dad or stay there any overnights, if that happens. The son doesn’t want to be bouncing between 2 households. He enters 10th grade in the fall- very intense program, then all the college prep would fall on me, while I am starting a new job. At the moment my husband and I are splitting HW duties , and I have more time for myself. So in a way, delaying is also helping me to delegate many parenting duties dealing with autistic teen in high school. I don’t want my son to be a college dropout, just because dad remarried and had no time for him in high school.  [/quote]

He owned the house before you.  This is not your marital house.  Your son may not want to to bounce between two houses but that's reality.  You are all full of excuses and are a huge part of the problem.  If you want to take away your son's dad from him, fine.  But, don't expect Dad to cooperate if you are taking his child away.  You are making mixed messages as initially you stated Dad doesn't help and you do everything.  This post is saying differently.  You also first said you had no job but then posted about 120K in income.  So, either this is fake or you are off your rocker.  Move out, file for divorce.  Split everything appropriately.  And, act like a mature adult for your child's sake.[/quote]

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