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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP's wife may have mental health issues. If she does not attempt to resolve them, then she is responsible for that and can't blame her actions on "being mentally ill."

[b]And yes, not revealing previous mental health issues is a HUGE problem, right up there with a guy refusing to acknowledge to his wife who really wants six kids that he is infertile.[/b] [/quote]

I agree with this and think the OP has every right to be upset that this came out after he was married.  And he never really said he was upset about it--just pointing out that he didn't find out until after the marriage.  She was the one who was dishonest and should have told the OP before they got married.

OP, sounds like you are trying to do the best you can in a bad situation.  You sound like a good father and your kids are lucky to have you.  I wish you all the best and do think that counseling would make a world of difference if your wife will agree to it.  There has to be more to her behavior than just being lazy. [/quote]

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