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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have talked to him, it doesn’t change things. What next, do I threaten divorce?[/quote] Would he go to counseling with you? You've made a totally reasonable request that he not smoke when the kids are around, he agreed to it, but he's unable to do what he agreed to. I don't think your choices are live with it or divorce. Counseling would help with whatever the underlying issue is - is he dependent on it? Did he only agree not to smoke in front of the kids to get you off his back with no intention of stopping? Hopefully it will give you some clarity on what's next. I will say that the pattern here - he got a MMC he doesn't need, is getting high every night, and is unable to wait until the kids are in bed is not a great one.[/quote]
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