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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is everyone dismissing birth control because some people (including, apparently, OP) can't handle hormones?  It has been repeated at least three times on this thread -- there is a 99.9 percent effective birth control that is NOT HORMONAL, and that is the Paragard (copper) IUD.  The possible side effect is heavier periods.  On the other hand, vaginal lubrication is improved.  Your sex life can be much better with the Paragard than without.  I love mine.  LOVE it.  OP, I strongly encourage you to give it a try, if you have not already.

I would never, ever force surgery on a person who doesn't want it.  Never a good idea.  Of course it is unpleasant to think about and extremely unlikely, but OP might get hit by a bus tomorrow.  We never know for certain what the future holds.  Holding onto our fertility is a very personal thing and profoundly important for some of us.

Paragard IUD all the way.

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IUD insertion is also “forcing a surgery” just one with a lot worse potential outcomes.  [/quote]

An IUD insertion is not surgery and can be removed at any time. Problem solved[/quote]

I would consider having someone crank open my cervix and leave a piece of hardware in my body surgical.  It’s just outpatient, like a vasectomy.  It also has a higher likelihood of complications than a vasectomy.  Not saying it’s a bad option just that it’s not less invasive than vasectomy, just less permanent. [/quote]

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