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[quote=Anonymous]But dh did not handle it. He did not actually do what he said, which was handle bedtimes. Its as if I was always the one to cook dinner, and we do take out 1x per week aamitnis. Sure I would like to do take out more than I do but it's not healthy and it's expensive. We agreed once was good. So if I asked dh to start cooking 1x per week and he did take out out on his *one*  night I would be pissed. Noparenting and frankly marriage is about sometimes sacrificing your personal time for kids but if you do it equitably you don't have built up resentment.

Also I have a standing happy hour every Friday. It it's 5:30-630 and that's dhs night to deal with dinner. A few times he's had a happy hour or wanted to do something and I've adjusted. Plenty of weeks during this pandemic that someone in the group skips out for other responsibilities or commitments.

The issue is not that the kids was up late with a screen. The issue is that the dh unilaterally decided every Friday night he does what he wants while relying on OP to keep the schedule and deal with the kids and refused to do the same for her even.once
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