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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have one DS, age 4. DH and I have separate bedrooms and do separate things when DS is asleep. We eat all meals together. On weekends, we do a family activity day: museum, zoo, climbing gym, etc. and we alternate the other weekend day. DH are somewhat physically affectionate to each other in front of DS: back oats, brief hugs. How does something like this play out long-term? So far DS hasn't asked any questions. We don't plan on getting a divorce or moving out until DS it's in his 20s or maybe not at all because we will be very old and tired by then.[/quote]

So, how this plays out long term depends entirely on your expectations.  Your setup sounds fine and tbh, many long term couples arrive at this point organically.  You are not old yet, so at some point either of you may want to date, and then it will of course blow things up.  You can of course have a DADT arrangements but eventually someone will want more.

I wouldn't worry about "setting the right example" to the children.  There is nothing wrong in this example, and you can't really program anyone for happiness or misery.  Every human has to walk their own path. [/quote]

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