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[quote=Anonymous]Oh, and re: divorce and seeing other people’s needs — think carefully about what you want here. Every man is going to have a shortcoming that will matter for you. What you need to work out is whether he’s willing to try enough to make you feel seen. That might mean a lot of different things to you — therapy for him, a commitment to spend X amount of time building the relationship per day (you decide on the rotation of activities), explicit requests for whatever your love language is. I have come to the decision that divorce and co-parenting is not easier at all, and that I have the freedom within this marriage to make what I want of it. YMMV, but don’t be black and white about it...because that could end with no one ever being quite good enough.[/quote]
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