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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I posted this on the cheaters thread and thought others may find it interesting. It is very simple. Marriage is an enormous financial burden and investment for men. For a man to put everything at stake to have an affair, it just tells me how unhappy he must be in his marriage. The following advice has helped myself and at least two women I know save their marriages:

- Love and respect your husband- Men are not like women. Respect and admiration is like OXYGEN to them. They want to be admired and looked up to by their women. It is in their DNA. Praise him. Tell him how accomplished and successful he is. Men are like children who want to impress you and seek your approval.

- Frequent sex- If you don't sleep with him he will find 5 other younger and hotter girls on Tinder who gladly will.

-Stop criticizing him-What may seem like a simple suggestion to you reads like criticism to him. Over time it builds up and he thinks you do not like or respect him. It makes him feel emasculated.

-Let him has his way sometimes. He always lets you have yours.

- Be feminine- Do your hair. shave your legs. Sometimes he wants to see the girl he fell in love with

I would be willing to bet that there is no man who would willingly step out on a happy and healthy marriage.[/quote]

You’d lose that bet. Men who want to cheat will cheat no matter how frequent the sex. In fact, of my friends who have been cheated on by DHs, all were having sex 5-7x a week. One had only been married 20 days when her husband cheated.

I don’t know what reality you live in where men always let their wives have their way.

Your advice seems calculated to make women who have been cheated on blame themselves. Nothing can make a marriage cheat-proof except two people who are not cheaters by nature. Non-cheaters leave unhappy marriages without committing infidelity.

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