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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ more sex which includes variety (a different person) after 20 years screwing the same one.

This does not mean the marriage is sexless.  It’s like when a boyfriend cheats on his girlfriend.  They were having sex.  The opportunity was there for sex with somebody different.[/quote]

I am specifically talking why married men cheat. not frequent enough sex, wherein the wife is not interested. In other words a sexless marriage. THAT is (bad far) the most common reason why married men cheat.

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And I’m telling you at midlife men getting sex at home often due it solely for variety.  They have only had the same woman for 20-years.  20-years of vanilla, if chocolate presents an easy no strings opportunity when they are at a time in life they feel they are getting old and didn’t accomplish what they wanted by now: Hello chocolate!!

It’s a story as old as time.  They haven’t stopped banging vanilla and they don’t even plan to ever runaway with chocolate.

It happens more often with high libido men which you don’t sound like which is why you can’t fathom it.  I don’t know any woman that completely stopped having sex with their husbands who were cheated on...which is why they all were booking STI appointments.  As a gynecologist, there are so many women I treat that have caught something from a cheating spouse...or were cheating themselves.

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