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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah, I’ve gotta agree that you two need to learn to communicate better. You kind of lost me at “it’s not fair” that she said no, and quite frankly it makes me a bit concerned for *her*, if this is the way you react to her expressing her needs.

It would be extremely premature to break up over this without really sitting down and hashing out both of your thoughts, feelings, hopes and expectations, and it’s essential that you’re able to do that if you’re to have a healthy future together.

I’m wondering - does she still envision getting engaged at the year mark, even if you’re not yet living together? I doesn’t sound like you’re really understanding where she’s coming from.

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OP here. I don’t think it matter because I won’t propose at 1 year anymore. [/quote]

You sound like a petulant child. "It's not fair!" "I'm taking my proposal and going home!"   Act like a almost-40 yr old and discuss this with her like a rational human. [/quote]

All of this.  I seriously question whether you are emotionally mature enough for the kind of relationship you’re contemplating.[/quote]

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