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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP this is nothing new, I'm sure most know it.

When I was cheated on he was immediately dead to me. It certainly didn't save anything, lol. All I can add, a outsider isn't worth losing your spouse, kids, and finances over. Years ago I worked in family court, I can't tell you how many men cried foul at all the consequences of their cheating. Women too, but mostly men who didn't want to accept the domino effect. I'm sure when they were cheating though it was a different story, lol.  [/quote]

But you skipped a crucial detail. What was your marital sex life BEFORE he cheated? If you had lost interest such that his sexual needs were no longer being met, then your marriage was already on the fast track to divorce BEFORE he cheated. So his cheating in fact DID save your low sex marriage.

Whatever happened in family courts is not a consequence of cheating, it's a consequence of the sexless marriage which preceded the cheating.[/quote]

See there you go, President.  You ASSUME once again, it had to be the result of a sexless marriage.  We had sex multiple times per week.[/quote]

Yours is a rare special case. Sorry for your betrayal, but go start a thread about cheating because this is a sexless marriage thread, not a cheating thread.[/quote]

You are the one that directly asked me if I were in a sexless marriage when my husband cheater...and then you want to put down family court.  I answered.  It doesn't fit your narrative so you attack.  I think you are confusing several different posters for one person.[/quote]

Right. Because look what thread you are on. This is a sexless marriage thread. This is NOT a cheating thread. You weren't in a sexless marriage, you were in a cheating marriage. So why are you even posting here on this thread at all? Of course a non-sexless marriage does not fit the sexless marriage narrative![/quote]

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