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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]12:52. I know. You are totally correct, but like your son, it's not easy to disengage from a relationship especially with children. You may feel responsible for your parenting and I feel responsible for my choice to marry him and have kids with him. As long as he's willing to work, I'm willing to work on it too too, but I'm glad I had this conversation to sort out why it was so violating and it seemed to work since he apologized and is making amends. [b]The other issue I didn't disclose is that with his friend, he never mentioned his own issues and what havoc he brought to the relationship like the cheating.[/b] That's a sure sign to me that a person isn't having a productive conversation if all they can do is share someone else's experience and emotion and not their own. I wish you luck with your DS. All the sharing online has pressed boundaries more than where we were a decade or so ago.[/quote]

DP.  This is a pretty big detail to leave out.  Another gut reaction for you to take or leave: Your husband doesn’t really want to fix your marriage, he wants to do just enough to keep you from leaving with having to truly own up to what he did wrong or make significant changes to prevent it from happening again.  And deep down, perhaps subconsciously, you know this and that’s why you keep sharing the story in drips and drabs, so you can get the response you want from us rather than a real one.  [/quote]

OP, are you careful to share all your mistakes and transgressions with your friends?

This seems like an odd thing to get upset over.[/quote]

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