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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was born and rested in the US and was raped at age 17, impregnated but had idiot super religious parents who blamed me for being raped also thought abortion was murder.  I had the bastard resulting from this rape and have her up for adoption.  My parents wanted to keep her but by that time I was 18 and was of age to put her up for adoption.  I tried to get on with my life but the shame if being blamed for rape and being forced to bear his bastard made me hate myself for decades.  I finally got some in-depth counselling, met a wonderful man, got married and we had children.  Somehow the rape child found me.  She wanted money.  I gave her up for adoption because I never wanted to see, hear, or have anything to do with her ever.  In giving her up, she had no rights to me or to any of my family history.  I also left my parents as soon as I was able and ceased all contact with them and everybody in my family.

If her birth mother wanted to see her, she would.  
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I’m so sorry you went through this.  I hope you provided this child who wanted money with you the names and address of your parents so she could get money from them.  They’re the ones that wanted you to have her, seems the right thing for them to do is to support her financially.  I, glad you were able to get free and move on with your life.[/quote]

I reported her to a lawyer who wrote to her to tell her that I wanted nothing to do with her and any further contact and a TRO would be filed.  
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