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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have two kids that will one day ask you why you are divorced.  Even if they don't say it, they will one day wonder if you worked hard at saving your marriage.
Give it a year of personal and marriage counseling if you have any inkling of staying.  Try to let go of the resentment and recognize that you probably weren't perfect either.  After the year if you feel the same way, you can leave knowing that you tried.  [/quote]

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Sure my parents could have easily divorced because they weren't "happy". But now with kids of my own, and a DH that comes from a divorced home, I am overjoyed that my parents stuck it out, and continue to. It's truly one of the greatest gifts you can give your children. [/quote]

... and sure, my parents could have gotten divorced because they weren't "happy".  Instead they stuck it out!  ... so my family rarely spends any time with them because whenever we do we can't stand the constant bickering and fighting between the two of them.  It's impossible for me to spend more than a half-day in their presence without wanting to stab myself in the eye with a sharp and find the sweet release of death.  I wish to god they had divorced -- at least that way their grandchild could spend some time with them individually to get to see the good qualities each of them possess.[/quote]

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