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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]“I don’t think children should be responsible for the emotions for adults” Really? The teacher is communicating to her students in words that children understand. Children need to understand that their actions have consequences. Newsflash, OP, people’s actions do have consequences and do affect how how others feel. You are a piece of work. Please, please, please bring this example to your Principal and ask for a new teacher....[/quote]

The feeling of another adult is not a consequence that should be meaningful to the child.  I've taught my children early on to respond to things like that with "I'm not responsible for what you feel."  And they aren't. [/quote]

This is an appalling attitude both to have and to pass onto your children. It is this kind of attitude that leads to individuals being self-absorbed, unempathetic, close-minded, antisocial people who care nothing about their families, neighbors, community, or humankind as a whole.

If your kid says to an adult, "You are fat and ugly," and the adult responds,  "Those words hurt my feelings," you actually taught your children to say, "I'm not responsible for what you feel"?  :shock:

If your kid makes a racist or discriminatory comment, and the adult tells your kid that the comment is not appropriate and is hurtful, you'd encourage your child to reapond, "I'm not responsible for what you feel"? :shock:

If your kid is kind towards another person and that person says, "Thank you! That made me feel happy that you showed kindness, " you taught your kid to answer, "I'm not responsible for what you feel"? :shock:

If your kid does a good job on something and his or her teacher/coach/religious leader says, "I am so proud of you," you encourage your child to respond,
"I'm not responsible for what you feel"? :shock:[/quote]

OP is making an error in parenting that will impact the kind of person her child becomes. And she is more concerned about a mediocre teacher.[/quote]

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