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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anyone else buy their daughter a vibrator instead? So far it seems to have worked. She's not sexually active at 16.[/quote]

You are naive if you think sex for a 16 year old girl is about pleasure.  Your new age parenting is not what is working.  She simply isn't ready or hasn't had the opportunity. Also it's super creepy to buy that for your daughter.[/quote]

I would die if I got that from my mom, if I am being honest- and she was very open about communicating that we could go to her whenever. BUT I also remember going and getting them with my freshman college friends after one of our friends told us we "had to" because she got one from her "cool aunt" and when we did all get them I think we were all wishing we had a cool aunt who got us one a bit earlier. LOL that story just makes me laugh when I think about it. This is before amazon and what not, these kids have it so easy now! This was not new age, it was 1999. AIM was the hot new age technology for reference.

We SHOULD be telling 16 year old women that it is about them. Not "about you too" as some kind of aside but their sexual experiences are about them, their comfort level, their enjoyment, etc- not being a selfish partner but being realistic, they are going to need to be more self focused because that's reality. Their sexual experiences should NOT be about the other person.[/quote]

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