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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Woman here.  I had to learn from my unsuccessful dating patterns what it was that [i]I[/i] was doing that made me unsuccessful. And that in fact, I was avoiding intimacy by chasing unavailable men. Any guy who is having difficulty dating needs to look inside and figure out why [i]he[/i] has put himself in that position.  There's always a reason.[/quote]

+1. This is how I learned years ago I was codependent and could start working to course correct. When you fix faults with yourself you clear the way for a healthier future and healthier relationships. Dating is not difficult. You can always find someone to be with. Having a fulfilling relationship that is healthy with intimacy means you have to bring the same to the table, at a minimum. You don't tolerate any less because you value the work you put in for yourself and wouldn't sabotage that with an unhealthy person. Once you are healthy it is easy to spot the like-minded. Much harder to fake it.[/quote]

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