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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men: "I didn't have a strong father figure" Also men: "Avoid women with daddy issues!" What we're seeing here is that men have daddy issues too, but they expect to be accepted for something they wouldn't accept. [/quote] This theme has always been an underpinning in my "family tree" as it pertains to black men/fathers. It is a completely different ball game with our complicated history and the leadership role/building intimacy/self-worth/responsiblity, etc . Its sad and frustrating because many start out with a negative balance. There are a lot of great dads but many just dont know how to be a man because they never saw one. It is frustrating for the black woman. I'm not going to get into discussions that are appropriate within my community. But I have my own experiences of black father(s) and watching my child's father walk their own journey. It isnt easy. But it isnt excusable either. Things still suck, just a little less than before. [/quote]
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