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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] think a lot of young men read this stuff but a much smaller percentage are hardcore.

I’d always been friend zoned by women and always the reliable guy they could lean on and tell me about their breakups. In reading on how I could up my game I stumbled on this red pill stuff and, while I still have the same high level of respect for women, my approach is entirely different.

For example, I play the field more with women rather than ditching them all when one woman acts like she likes me. I’d been burned on that before when we break up and I’ve burned bridges.

Also, I don’t engage in chatty text messages, I let my intention be known in a nice way. I set a date and make the date. I don’t emote all of my feelings. I no longer text chat all day while I’m working. If I feel I’m not appreciated I don’t keep giving of myself. I used to be the guy several beautiful women would ask to move their furniture after they got railed by some guy who wasn’t in my opinion as good as me.

In other words reading this stuff has made me realize my self worth.

I don’t think the people who say dump this guy actually have read the stuff. Or they have only read extreme women hating stuff.
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This doesn't sound like red pill. It sounds like establishing your boundaries. when i was dating, I did many of the same things (I'm a woman). Dont fall for someone right away, assume they are dating others, dont engage in stupid endless texting, just meet and either pursue if there's chemistry or nicely end it. [/quote]

"I used to be the guy several beautiful women would ask to move their furniture after they got railed by some guy who wasn’t in my opinion as good as me" sounds exactly like red pill. "I did favors for women I wanted to sleep with. I wasn't honest about my intentions with them, and I hoped they'd be interested in me even as they clearly were interested in other men instead" would be a normal, healthy way of talking about this. [/quote]

I am a woman and I was never in the dark about the intentions of the men I asked to move my furniture.  It is true I had no intentions to reciprocate but don't say they weren't honest about their intentions.  Women know men who move their furniture want to sleep with them. [/quote]

Some do, some don't. In my early 20s, I thought men who acted like they wanted to be my friend actually wanted to be my friend. After all, I helped both men and women who I didn't want to sleep with move furniture. Talking about women this way is not the same as saying that you don't text all day and that if you want to ask a woman out, you just do it. You can grow a spine without putting down the women you used to want to sleep with. [/quote]

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