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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men cheat for sex. Keep your man happy in the bedroom especially when they hit 40-50 and they won’t have the energy to cheat. [/quote]

STOP! Just stop!  I had sex with my husband 3-4 times per week.

There are sex addicts and narcissists and all kinds of f@cked up people with last trauma.

Let’s stop blaming victims.  Let’s realize there are a number of completely different reasons people cheat.

And women are cheating in the same numbers these days.

So quit spouting stupid sh@t.[/quote]

Not PP you are responding to, and it is true that some men cheat when they are still getting action at home. But I really believe those are the rare instances. In reality, most men who cheat in long-term marriages do it because they are not getting sex at home and they do not want do divorce due to splitting kids, custody, housing, etc. No one is dismissing your experience--yes, there are narcissists that cheat on their wives who are sleeping with them, but that is not in every case it is is more the rare situation than the others where men are doing it because they lack physical intimacy in the marriage.[/quote]

Is this why there are so many married women cheating too?  The ones I know of are looking to upgrade and they can get better looking more successful mem when they stay an AP than if they had to go on the free market.  The same men would not date them if they were single.  They are not in the same class of looks/intelligence.[/quote]

The point was not about how many married men vs women cheat. The point was the REASON for it.
Men who cheat do so because the wife does want sex (with him).
Women who cheat do so because they are sexually bored with husband but an exciting/new man comes along and courts her.[/quote]

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