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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My favorite "lie" were the guys who never mentioned they had kids until we were on a date.

I'm sure I'm a "crazy bitch" in a lot of stories, but the minute they mentioned having kids I paid for my drinks and left without another word. Yes, I made it clear in my profile that I didn't want kids. Which meant these dads were either illiterate or thought they were sooooo fantastic that they could change my mind. Neither is a good trait.  [/quote]

While I agree with you that they should have put having kids with the rest of information about themselves - you not wanting kids for most people means "not wanting kids on your own".

Since this info comes from a selection of generated answers, you need to inform these men that you don't want their kids either in your profile.[/quote]

Does it? If a man says he doesn't want kids and you have a 3 year old would you think "he doesn't want kids but surely he's going to be OK with a child in the home for 15 years"? That's just not rational thinking. People who don't want kids don't want them. Not even "just every other week".

There's a reason they don't mention having kids. Like the age thing they're just trying to sneak around other people's preferences. [/quote]

Last time I've done online dating there was a part where you state if you have kids or not (doesn't have them, but wants them / doesn't have them and doesn't want them). If this particular man stated that he didn't have any kids, than he was lying.

But my point remains "doesn't have kids and doesn't want them" means that you don't want to procreate, not necessarily that you don't want to date men with kids.[/quote]

You used OKCupid too?  :)  And yes, they would leave that section blank. If they stated they had kids I never bothered with them. I think we'll have to agree to disagree re: "doesn't have kids and doesn't want them". Every childfree person will tell you that not wanting kids means they're not going to live with your kids. DINK /= "Dual Income and I Babysit His Kids"[/quote]

Interesting! Never knew that. [/quote]

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