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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]From what I gather -

Your brother was irresponsible with his own money and then wanted yours.

You said no and refused to be an enabler, so he insulted you and your spouse.

He continues to insult and bad mouth your wife. You seem to be ok with that and still want to have a relationship with him.

He refuses to apologize for his previous misbehavior and continues to act like a brat, but you want your wife to have a warm relationship with him.

I fail to understand the question here. You are worried about the relationship between your wife and brother? I would worry about your relationship with your wife. You are showing zero respect and concern for her. Nobody can insult my spouse and continue to be close to me. I cut that shit out at the first instance. You seem to let him talk like that every time you guys interact. It also seems that one of the reasons he does this is because you are solely putting the responsibility of this on your wife instead of being a united front and saying you both don't agree to a reconciliation till he makes amends and behaves better in the future.

That is because this is DH’s normal. He is used to the insults and then the next day it is “love you man.” Dysfunctional cray cray.

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