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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I’m not so much bummed for him that you don’t reciprocate his feelings — but I’m very bummed for *you*. He’s a good friend (the basis of a good relationship), a great guy, good in bed, “hung” and he has romantic feelings for you. But you’re still in love with someone who is completely unworthy. [/b]

This isn’t a criticism - you have a broken heart, and you literally just broke up with someone you thought you were going to marry. It’s just a case of terrible timing. This guy friend sounds like the kind of guy you should be with, and who doesn’t come around every day. I wish you were in a place to give it a chance.

If it’s meant to be, he’ll be patient. Or maybe he just isn’t the guy for you, regardless. You’re right not to jump into something else right now, but darn.

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+1. I thought, maybe the sex was bad but OP comes back and days it was great.  Maybe the guy friend isn’t really a great guy and she comes back and said he is.  Maybe she has a boyfriend or he has a girlfriend - nope both are single.  [i]Op would you want to date  him if you hadn’t just been in the long term relationship and he asked you?  [/i]If yes, figure out if there is a way to take it slow.  If no, realize that you might lose the strong friendship, but it would be wrong to lead someone on and prevent them from finding the one for them.  [/quote]

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