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[quote=Anonymous]Ghosting can serve it's intended purpose. See what happens if you go silent. Don't engage. At all. I did this with a smaller group of ever increasing cliquish moms: an odd combo of college friends, a queen bee, a social climber and another dealing with intense personal issues. Suddenly, the group turned into a competition to "help" (provide gifts, hang out with, talk to, host parties ... curry favor for one w/ issues). Absolutely sickening with social media posts and photo ops and blogs. I walked away and ghosted them all. Occasionally have run into one or two, I'll get the "we never see you..." and we'll exchange pleasantries but that's it. They don't care about me and I don't care about them - these are not friends. I'm willing to guess that if you don't reach out, you won't hear from this friend again. You will not miss her and will actually be relieved that you've removed the toxicity! [/quote]
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