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[quote=Anonymous]I would ask her if you two can figure out how to solve this. Once you are married there will be so many times that you’ll have to negotiate and problem solve with each other. This will see if you can do this and also see if you share common values. I picked a $2500 1ct CZ with platinum band so we’d have enough money for a trip to Japan. So I would just tell her- I have no more than $8000. I know you want several carats. How do you propose we solve this? Hopefully she will offer to pay the difference or chose a lower quality diamond. But something that shows she understands the practical limitations. If she starts guilting you to prove your love or start to go through your finances to determine how much you should be able to spend, those are red flags and you need to walk away. “We don’t have the same values” [/quote]
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