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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Monogamy is a more challenging task for some people than for others. I think we can accept that as true, just as any other task is more challenging for some people than others.

The point is that a decent human being would either know themselves well enough not to commit to monogamy, or would end the ostensibly monogamous relationship if they found it was a bar they could not meet. It is 2020. If you want to be single, or poly, those are options that are open to you.

But lying and abusing your spouse just because you are struggling to live up to your promise of fidelity? That's a deal breaker right there. [/quote]

But the reason some people have affairs isn't because they are having problems with monogamy, they are having problems and don't know how to cope. An affair is a source of a lot of really good feelings (the chemical high!) that allow them to avoid.

I don't have a problem with monogamy. I had problems with ME. And my issues spilled over into our marriage. And eventually they spilled over into me having an AP.[/quote]

You are just an unmitigated ass. Your wife if she did not leave you is a perfect asinine partner. [/quote]

I think you are talking to woman based on the style of writing.[/quote]

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