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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think there are sooo many factors here. I've never cheated, and to my knowledge, I've never been cheated on (and I'm pretty confident in that), so I don't have any skin in the game.

But there are things I think I could get over, and things I couldn't.

Thinking about what the OP said, for example. If my husband was going through a really hard time, for a reason I could understand, and then was acting super weird for a month, and then tearfully confessed to an affair, it's actually difficult for me to imagine NOT getting past that (with time, effort from both sides, and therapy). Don't know if that was her situation, but could be.

If I found out my husband was living a double life, it had been going on for years, and I had no idea until he was caught - I honestly can't imaging staying.

The devil is in the details.  [/quote]

This exactly.  There is cheating and their are years long affairs with professions of love.  There are situations where someone who is sexually deprived is understandably if unethically seeking intimacy and ones where they are sleeping around despite a good sex life at home. And it all depends how the rest of the marriage is[/quote]

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