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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it bad form for a lily-white American woman who marries a man with an obviously Latino/Asian/Middle Eastern-sounding name to change to her husband's name or should she keep her own (anglo-American) surname? Of course some women today prefer keeping their maiden names anyway. I don't know why, but something just rubs me as cultural appropriation or faking diversity when someone like Larla Jones gets married and becomes Larla Rodriguez, Larla Zhang, or Larla Al-Habib. It's like pretending not to be white. [/quote] I did it. I did it because it better reflected our family. But an interesting result was that other white people stopped spewing their bigoted comments my way, no longer ignorant of the fact I am married to an Arab Muslim.[/quote]
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