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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of French women tolerate this. If you're not providing a good sex life for your husband and/or you lack a sex drive, what do you care? As long as he doesn't have more children and you maintain your lifestyle, so be it.[/quote]

STOP!  Did you not read any of the cited blogs or infidelity specialists.  It is not the REASON many men cheat.  Many men are still having very active sex lives with their own wives.  Many men in happy marriages cheat.

Just stop with the crap already.[/quote]

Shirley Glass:

Q: Is this compartmentalizing characteristic of people who get into affairs?

Dr. G. It’s much more characteristic of men. Most women believe that if you love your partner, you wouldn’t even be in an affair; therefore, if someone has an affair, it means that they didn’t love their partner and they do love the person that they had the affair with. But my research has shown that there are many men who do love their partners, who enjoy good sex at home, who nevertheless never turn down an opportunity for extramarital sex. In fact, 56 percent of the men I sampled who had extramarital intercourse said that their marriages were happy, versus 34 percent of the women.

That’s how I got into this.[/quote]

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