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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every day it is a different man wanting the same level of sex and intamacy and energy out of their wives that they had while dating. 
Yet no one realizes that she does not have the same work load, burden, etc that she did while dating. 
I haven't had 8 hours of sleep in almost 8 years. First it was babies not sleeping through the night. Then it was DH gaining weight and developing snoring (refusing to do anything until recently), then it was a work promotion and working longer hours etc. 
I haven't had a day to myself in over a year due to kids, DH working from home and inlaw visits. 
I have to cook or find food for 5 people daily, even if it is cereal or a sandwhich a 2 year old can't do that himself. 
I have to do laundry for myself and 3-4 others routinely (DH hates laundry and will ask me to do his too at least 1x a month)
I have to buy more birthday gifts and send cards then I care to (and we have cut back) but with kids in school and friends/family it all adds up.

These are just a few things that deplete my energy and wanting to have sex. We do have sex right now 1-2 times per week but any more than that I just don't have any more to give. 
Now, if I had my own place again, only cooked for myself, did laundry for myself, slept in until 9 on the weekends, where a day off of work was all about ME. Then hell ya. I would have a ton more energy to throw at a guy or a husband or whoeever but you know what? That is not what marriage and having a family is. I am sick of the woman always getting blamed for not being willing to light herself on fire to keep others warm without 1 bit of empathy from the men on this thread about all that the woman in their life does to keep it going. [/quote]
No one put a gun to your head to get married and have multiple kids. You signed up for it, now pay the Fiddler. [/quote]

No put a gun to a guys head to get married and have kids yet they do. Then they expect no aspect of their lives should change in any way. [/quote]

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