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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I got more information from her. He was a guy she was interested in but it never worked out. They had sex once before we had sex ( we had sex a week later on fifth date) and she said she realized she was more into me and wanted to only date me. It was within the first month and we were not exclusive. I’m going to move forward with her but I’m not proposing when I had planned. I think I’m going to give it more time and see how things go before I make any more decisions about it. [/quote]

Woman here. You are being ridiculous. She slept with him before you? She did not cheat. You are insecure. She chose you. [/quote]

I am a woman as well. OP is wise to reevaluate the situation, and in my opinion, he should move on . No she's spinning it as she chose him because she doesn't want to be alone wants that ring. Dream guy  rejected her.  How the story came out is fishy as heck.   While I agree she didn't cheat no way should OP marry this woman, he is setting himself up for misery once she gets the  baby or two, and she realizes she settled to get a ring and kids.   He won't move on though, and she won''t either and they will be divorcing in 5-10 years or miserably married and having or contemplating affairs.[/quote]

MAJOR projecting going on in this post based on NOTHING OP said.  Dream guy? She slept with the dude one time. Geez[/quote]

Not projecting. I've seen this thing play out many times.  If they genders were reversed you'd be saying the same thing.  This situation has bad news written all over it, the exact situation that in 10 years if OP  posts about a sexless marriage, affair  or divorce you, and the others  shaming OP, will shame him again for ignoring the red flags.[/quote]

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