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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not looking for affirmation. It’s an anonymous board. I was simply trying to gauge how many people in the US are suffering from trauma to the point where they can’t live a virtuous monogamous life. I guess DCUM isn’t the best place. It was just a reflection after seeing how hard women and men had it in the past trying to start a life here that it seems odd we have people like Elon Musk who have everything and just have affair after affair. It really wasn’t anything related to me. I didn’t ask how much better I was than anyone. If anything I feel I fall short of my more perfect family members. I just wasn’t aware how much trauma others went through till I became an adult. You are right I was naive. But it is a symptom of a greater cutural failing if so many of our children are growing up in broken homes and we can’t seem to rise above the trauma ourselves as a society. [/quote]

There was nothing wrong with your question. Some are just very sensitive to this issue [/quote]

There certainly was something wrong with their question. OP clearly thinks they have the moral high ground, and that Christians are naturally inclined to “virtuous” monogamous marriages, which is bullshit. I’m a swinger, and there are so so so so so so so many Christians in the lifestyle, it’s not even funny. I spend most of my time trying to avoid them and find other godless heathens like myself.[/quote]

I’m op and did not mean to really relate any of this to my own life other than to acknowledge that I’ve seen successful marriages. I mentioned Christianity because it specifically calls out a monogamous relationship with a man and woman. Other religions and the constitution do not. So I was referring to the dogma not specific groups of people. [/quote]

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