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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think men just tend to believe the world revolves around them and cant understand how a woman has the audacity not to cater to them when THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX!!!!!!  It's an entitlement, petulant child thing. But anyway...just ignore.[/quote]

Yeah, imagine the nerve of these guys, agreeing to sexual exclusivity, then not getting any sex, then getting mad about it. 🙄🙄🙄[/quote]

Right. Sexual exclusivity is not "sex whenever I want it".  That's not what exclusive means. [/quote]

Who is talking about “sex whenever I want it” because I must have missed that post. 
Agree exclusivity is NOT “whenever” but it IS “frequent enough to meet normal needs”.
If you can’t commit to that you better be flexible on that exclusivity part.[/quote]

You aren't committing to eternal sex in marriage. You are committing to a person, for better or worse. Sometimes "worse" means they no longer have a sex drive or that part of the body stops working. Are you still committed to your spouse or not? If not, you should not get married, because for the vast majority of people this will happen eventually -- and it may be you who's bits stops working.[/quote]

Sometimes "worse" means beating someone to death. You know what I heard from a counselor that I once worked with in my church? There was an experience of a wife in an abusive situation. She was counseled to honor her vows, and she was killed. Since then, this person doesn't make statements of what anyone should do in their marriage. Instead, this person counsels on her interpretation of what literature says about the circumstances presented.

We don't get a vote on who will be Canada's president. Because we are Americans, we don't live in the country, dont pay taxes in that country, dont have a linked heritage to the land there as a private resident.

Likewise - No one outside of my marriage gets a vote on my marriage. Because it is my marriage. It is no one else's business what why or how you do it. Right, wrong, or indifferent. [/quote]

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