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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know two men who are controlled by their wives in ways that are painful to watch when we’re with them and both guys have said they like being bossed around. One says he likes not having to make his own choices. Doing just what his wife wants simplifies things. I wish sometimes that I could be attracted to such pushover guys! [/quote] I could never be attracted to a guy like that. I dated a guy prior to meeting my husband that never 'checked' me on anything. It was ridiculous after awhile. I found myself being nastier and him really never standing up for himself or rightfully telling me when I was legitimately being an 'a-hole'. The relationship ended because I ended up having zero respect for him. My husband of 22 years and I can butt heads from time to time because we both have strong alpha personalities. It works because we can call each other out when one of us is being unreasonable. We have an equal partnership. We both contribute to the household and the finances. His salary grew larger than mine over the years, but are household dynamic has stayed very much eglatrian. I don't get the women on some power trip thinking they are so 'demanding'. That reeks of insecurity to me.[/quote] Much healtheir than what OP describes. I never would want to be on either side of a lopsided marriage. I was fortunate to have parents that provided an excellent example of a healthy marriage and respect for one another.[/quote]
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