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[quote=Anonymous]While I cannot imagine why she felt she could demand you apologize - saying she was hurt that she'd extended an invite with her assumption that you were going to eat food she'd prepared would have been reasonable. That's an adult thing to say. Stepping back-it sounds like you each had assumptions, neither of you communicated, you both screwed up. As usual in these situations I find it incredible that neither of the husbands (me assuming here!) that they both attended have no part in the blame/responsibilities - just the women?? While I do think the assumption most have for the distanced get togethers is everyone brings their own stuff - that your in-laws thought differently is apparent. You and your DH should give an over the top recitation of it was neither of y'alls intention to do anything but safeguard each other. Every one is stressed. Let it go and try and be kind...even it if it galls a bit.[/quote]
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