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1. Au Pair, don't feel bad. It sounds like you two had a fun time and you ended it when it became untenable. The wife got what she deserved in that situation.

2. The rest of you, relax. Rematches happen, people make mistakes, and, whether you accept it or not, the adulterer is sometimes not the one most at fault...  move past all of it with maturity and grace. It's the best form of revenge.

3. And get the money.[/quote]I love the idea of having an Au Pair living in the basement where I can sneak down and enjoy some sexy times. Good for you. It's woman like you who make this a happier world. [/quote]

You know she's a human with feelings and expectations, right? To you, she's nothing more than a hole to make YOU happy. What do you have to offer to her other than crappy, fast and quiet sex so you won't wake up the mommy boss upstairs? You can't take her out anywhere,  you can't buy her gifts, you can't take her on vacations. The PP response should be a wake up call to all the young women to look for someone young and available to make you happy. Or at least someone wealthy who is not scared to divorce his wife who is making the $. [/quote]

A lot of Au Pairs are troubled and home sick.  They are very young and immature.  Of course, they see host dad as 'father figure'.  Any 'daddy issues' they bring with them and this is an absolute disaster in the making.

Also, certain countries are fraught with problems with their Au Pairs.

That said, I have a friend that was an Au Pair and a wonderful one.  Very professional with loads of integrity that would never even think of sleeping with the husband.  She told me quite a few doozy stories that made me never want to hire an Au Pair.  I work from home so had a nanny come into the house when the kids were mall.  Nanny was my age, college degree, and zero interest in my husband.  In fact, he rarely saw her because she left around the time he got home from work.

It's always a running joke about 'sleeping with the nanny'.  I mean--look at Jude Law and Ben Affleck.  I don't think looks have anything to do with men sleeping with people that work in the home--it's opportunity and something wrong with the men--think of Arnold and the housekeeper.[/quote]

Yes, but all these men are fabulously wealthy and famous and the nannies got lots of $ from the celebrities and/or tabloids. Not so much from the Bethesda broke a** dad who stays with his working wife for $. So, in part, I can understand why the nanny would sleep with a celebrity. When I was younger I dated a much older, wealthy, single guy and it was fun, although I knew it was not long-term due to his age. But again, he was single and took me to a lot of great places and bought me some wonderful jewelry. All I'm saying is that married broke dads have nothing to offer to a young woman other than a tired p***s and a dad body. The au Pair can do much much better in terms of man quality.

And to the nanny working for dads with bathroom issues, I'm sorry. We didn't ask ours to clean up the bathrooms for exactly the same reason, we have a cleaning crew. I don’t get the obsession with pooping, phone on the toilet, and the ritual around pooping at all. Is this a testosterone thing? [/quote]

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