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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I sleep in a separate bedroom from my husband and it is absolutely blissful. I think the change came when our youngest was a baby and I was getting up to take care of him at night and then it just stuck. I just wanted space and time to myself at night and the guest bedroom became my haven.  My husband snores and it drives me absolutely crazy hearing that at night, and I would just rather have quiet, uninterrupted sleep, and have space for myself.  At first, my husband was hurt that I began sleeping in the guest bedroom, but I think he's accepted that I can't sleep with the snoring and I'm happier when I get a peaceful night's sleep.  The only awkward thing is when my MIL comes to visit and SHE sleeps in the guest bedroom and my kids refer to it as mommy's room. Not sure she's caught on. At first I was mortified, but honestly if it came up again, I would just admit that yes, I sleep in there because her son snores so loudly that I cannot get a good night's sleep. Not to mention, now we have a puppy, and I'm the one dealing with the puppy at night--all the more reason to sleep separately.  I have lots of friends who sleep separately too for a variety of reasons and we all agree, we're happier this way.  Why torture yourself with snoring, restless sleep, temperature issues, etc., out of fear it will ruin your marriage? Whether or not you sleep next to someone  doesn't define your marriage.[/quote]

You’ve overlooked the most significant aspect of sleeping in separate rooms, and that’s whether or not you’re still maintaining an active sex life with your husband.[/quote]

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