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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I sleep in the guest room because: a) I sleep better; and b) I can masturbate in peace.

I used to endure the trouble I have falling asleep in the hopes that being in the bedroom would help our sex life. But it didn't. (Once every 4-6 weeks before, same after.)

I know my wife would like me to sleep in bed with her, but overall our marriage is better if I'm better rested & not sexually frustrated. [/quote]

Wow, this is so dead on to my marriage I thought I wrote it. I tried to make it a habit of going back to sleep with my wife but all it led to was sexual frustration a d resentment. So back to the guest room for me[/quote]

In all seriousness, this is exactly it.  My DW and I have had issues with sex lately to the point where I'm lucky if it happens 1x month.  She's borderline asexual and never initiates.  Going to bed is fraught with issues - it's depressing/frustrating getting into bed with her b/c there is no chance for sex even when I'm crazy for her.  I can see how sleeping in a guest bedroom would help in that regard but it's certainly not a long term solution[/quote]
^^ all 3 of you PPs:  Your problem isn't your choice of bedrooms. Your problem is calling somebody a "wife" who doesn't want sex with you. The proper word for that is a "room mate". And the normal/healthy solution to sexual frustration is then you go find a "girlfriend". [/quote]

I'm one of the PPs - you're wrong. I was pretty unhappy for awhile there, but now I'm in my 50s and my libido isn't so urgent. I'm pretty content with my wife and intact family. [/quote]

Well if you are such Low Testosterone and don’t really need sex anyway, why then did you post about “sexually frustrated” and explain how your masturbarjo ritual? You should have simply said that separate beds works great, end of story.[/quote]

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