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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP refuses a paternity test.  No one knows if this is even her biological father.  OP clearly has mental health issues.  Mom kept child from "Dad" and now child reappears to move in with "Dad" and have them pay for her needs.  Sounds like a scammer.[/quote]

Agree OP is the one with issues. And also agree that Mom has a huge role in this estrangement since she did not encourage a relationship with the father. (Maybe that's an indicator that the man really isn't OP's father...)

Likewise, dad's wife has an absolute right to opine on who enters her and her husband's life. Including any unknown offspring. It may very well be that dad and his wife have led a very happy, childfree-by-choice, and financially successful life.

Now the OP (who doesn't sound financially stable let alone mentally stable) enters this man's life ON A DAILY basis, wants to move in with him, and is seeking a certain amount of support from him - to probably include financial support.

IMO, I think this post is actually a stepmom in disguise who has actually had this situation foisted upon her and has relayed it from the "child's" perspective.  If she had posted it in her own role I am sure everyone would have slammed her for being a wicked stepmom.

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