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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think COVID has given me too much time to think about this but I just think this is the cruelty of life -- dating and sex with someone new is exciting and hot, but scary and unpredictable. Marriage (at best) is secure and safe and comes with true emotional intimacy, but it's boring and not like, horny. At all.

I also think it matters where you were in life when you got married. I married my husband after a slew of bad boys because I wanted to settle down with someone sweet and devoted. I'm glad I did, but I often feel like he's punching above his weight and it depresses me.

I just read a super hot romance novel (LOL) and it made me so jealous and depressed and nostalgic for having hot sex with a hot new guy, but after the characters fell in love it became comfortable and way less hot. And it was a romance novel! So, it's just life and human nature. Don't beat yourself up. [/quote]

My husband and I still have hot sex at 22 years of marriage.  Not every single time, some have to be quick, but still love having it.  If it makes you feel better- he cheated.  Every marriage has issues.  Ours was never in the bedroom.[/quote]

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