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[quote=Anonymous]>But please recognize that what you’re doing is asking the woman to take all of the risk and responsibility in order to spare the man any risk.

I am not asking the woman to do anything except to recognize that vasectomy has significant risks. I think that is a reasonable thing to expect.

>Take a gander at this:
https://www.askapatient.com/viewrating.asp?drug=21529&name=IMPLANON

The difference is that you can (almost always) remove Implanon if it goes badly. Fixing a bad vasectomy is far more difficult and expensive. Often it is not possible.

>And the makers of Paragard are literally being sued right now for causing injury:
https://www.natlawreview.com/article/simple-guide-...agard-lawsuits-and-settlements

Urologists are regularly sued over chronic pain caused by vasectomy:

https://pmj.bmj.com/content/77/912/656

>Nothing is risk-free except condoms. Nothing. The question is who is assuming the risk. OP has assumed the risk for many years, and now it’s his turn.

It is his choice. If he chooses not to get a vasectomy, that is acceptable. We all have a right to decide what we do to our own bodies and not be hounded about our choice. She can have sex on whatever terms she chooses, but she cannot justifiably pressure or emotionally blackmail him into getting a surgery that has the potential to leave him with chronic genital pain.[/quote]

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