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[quote=Anonymous]Marriage therapy should not be used in the aftermath of an affair. The cheater needs heavy duty individual counseling prior to even entering into couples therapy. Most affairs have underlying factors that need to be fixed by the broken party—childhood trauma/generational issues, mental illness such as BPD or narcissistic personality disorder, sex addiction, etc. Any marriage counselor under the age of 45 will be detrimental. They are of the polyamory, fluid sex and stepping outside ok mentality. The 3 therapists/psychs my spouse saw under that age of 45 never even addressed the affair as a problem. They wanted to sit and discuss and bill hours. All the while debating monogamy. Tread carefully. Marriage counselors like to throw blame at the betrayed party/victim when it is the cheater’s 100% responsibility for deceit and adultery.[/quote]
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