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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]not selfish, but I don't think 2 is a "big" family either.

[b]I think the people with 4+ kids are the selfish ones[/b] [/quote]
Why? Having 4+ pretty much requires you to be selfLESS most of the time.[/quote]

Because very few people have the financial resources to help 4+ kids pay for college, etc. Not to mention the fact that I don’t believe anyone has the time to give 4+ kids the attention they need to bring them up well. [/quote]

The financial aspect is certainly worth considering, but the second part you state is total nonsense.[/quote]

How do you give four kids the attention they each need every day except to say they don't need much 1-1 attention?[/quote]

Many of the things that most of the parents I interact with talk about all the time over the years: sports on TV, Game of Thrones, the newest bar, etc are of little me. Channel that time and focus into activities with kids. You can probably reach a limit but we had two and then twins for 3 and 4 and there is no difference in your arbitrary “4 is too many.”  I shudder to think of all the ways you must wast time to distract yourself from your own kids:[/quote]

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