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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hello...Bezos did.[/quote]

No he's not going to marry that joker, lol.

His wife left him otherwise he'd still be with her.[/quote]

This! I'm surprised how almost all the posts on this thread assume that when a man ends up with his mistress, it's because he left his wife for her. A lot of times, the wife finds out, leaves her husband, and he ends up with the mistress by default.[/quote]

That's what I did. He wanted to keep seeing the mistress while he "figured things out" but was absolutely stunned when I got a lawyer and kicked him out. Somehow he thought he could just continue to have both, forever. To this day, I think he would admit he hadn't given any thought to what would happen when I found out but he says he wasn't looking for a divorce. He got one. [/quote]

I do know someone who actually left the wife and stayed with the mistress. It's been about 7-8 years now.

But has he married the mistress? Nope. He's enjoying all the benefits of the relationship without making any sort of real commitment. He is well off and nothing is in her name. She's not getting any younger. Maybe they'll prove us all wrong and go the distance, but I wouldn't want to be in her situation...  [/quote]

This is common. The wife finds out and kicks the husband out. Husband lives with the mistress while figuring out his next step. Then he either goes back to the wife if she'll have him, dates but won't marry the mistress, or moves on and marries someone else. I see those scenarios a lot more than marries the mistress.[/quote]

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